Happy Halloween

We had a great halloween. Alistair and I dressed up as clowns ie retired and up and coming clown! LOL We had a busy day with the PG Deaf Children's Society heading a social group at a haunted house and then we calmed the nerves over hot chocolate and whip cream and learned some halloween words in ASL Then we dropped by one friends home for our first ever and only trick or treat. AND we topped it all off by heading to our new home in town and handed out some candy to about 20 kids that knocked on our door. Always love handy out candy to the kids. Hope your day was spooktacular too! hee hee hee BOO

Some Goodies

Flip its almost like I dropped off the face of the earth and then I turn around and blog three times in a week! Anyhow I just wanted to add these cute videos....well the one is just of Alistair eatting but the other is of him reacting to a Native American drum that i bought at the UNBC craft store this weekend....I also bought him this neat little rattle that was made out of streched moose hide and the rattle part was bee bee pellets....he loves them both...and as you all know i'm always looking for some new thing to introduce him some new sounds. Anyhow if your in PG this old Native fella has some neat little and big drums, rattles, and even baseballs! Mom also bought Alistair these neat black boots made out of wool. The lady makes these big booties and then washes them and dries them purposefully to shrink them... Anyhow thats the latest little expenditure and it was fun to go check out a good craft sale!

The Little Things!

I finally got a good picture of him (not so great of me LOL) lying his head on my shoulder. You know the average mom takes this for granted ie the tummy to tummy head on your shoulder cuddles. Well my little kidlet until very recently NEVER would put his head on my shoulder. Actually his favorite position is his back to my front. Its funny ALL people try to pick Alistair up and put him in this position and generally he goes into what I'd call the Peter Pan pose....toes pointed, arms straight back, and head hyperextended! So when I get the pleasure of this cuddle of love I absolutely LOVE it. Slowly but surely we get more and more little tastes of what "normal" is all about.

I also am floored regarding how much Alistair suddenly wants to be a little chatter box. I was having a mummy moment in the last week concerning myself with his lack of verbalizing and then he must have felt my stress because he's chatting morning, noon, night, midnight, early am,...and on! : D So i'm delighted and he seems to be holding his mouth a tad different too which is creating all sorts of new sounds to come out of those little lips.

Anyhow thought I'd share my delight! Enjoy the chatterbox video. Julie
PS I should just mention about my previous blog...one can still become dependent on that laxative its just the least likely of laxatives to cause dependence and for Alistair at the moment the benefits far outway the risks of being on the low dose. The pediatrician actually mentioned that since he has hypotonia (low central muscle tone) this low muscle tone could transfer to his gutt as well. So I'm hopefull that its mainly due to his lack of mobilization and fluid consumption and that the word laxative will become a thing of the past just like his regurg has!

My three favorite things!

Yeppers these are our three favorite things these days. Why well object number one the "ThickenUp" can be used in hot or cold food or beverages to make things not so fluidy. AND since I've found that Alistair is not drinking because fluids are too liquidly VOILA this is my answer to all my problems. Plus to my surprise I found out that some thickening agents change are not necessarily good as they totally change the make up of the fluid. I guess this stuff doesn't so basically he still gets the benefits of the liquid even though its thickened! Does that make sense? Anyhow the next one RestoraLAX yes you guessed it this helps the poop not become rabbit pellets which for some reason makes Alistair very very happy! LOL I've also been told by the pediatrician that he won't become dependent on it like some laxatives so super bonus. The other great thing about this stuff is you just sprinkle it on to whatever you need him to consume. ...Anyhow last but not least this is the first drinking cup that Alistair has stuck with for more than 2 days! whoop whoop. So in goes the thickened and diluted apple juice and we are all happy. I'm sure mom has bought Alistair every possible drinking contraption out there but anyhow this was the winner!

Alistair is still in heaven listening to the Rankin Family, Harry Belafonte and Natalie Cole. Basically thats the tapes we have so thats what he listens too on his tape player. Hes even getting into the cooing with the music and playing with his feet.

Everyday lately to my delight Alistair seems to be acquiring more and more torso control. Here he was able to sit for a good minute with only my legs supporting his sides. He seems to be at his best early in the morning when it comes to the torso control department. Its also obviously that he gets enjoyment out of sitting as he coos and smiles away.

As for me and work I am so pleasantly surprised up to now. Everyone is incredilby welcoming, friendly and supportive. Basically they just seemed thrilled that I took a permanent position even if its only part time. WOW they are short short staffed. Its really unreal. So far its not surprising if you miss breaks and i guess thats the norm here. So the little feeties are pretty darn tired after a 12 hour shift! But anyhow ya its a totally different ball game down here then up north. Not worse or better just different. Here we have our four beds allocated to us and we know thats our responsibility but the waiting time here is a good 6-9 hours! But there is just no movement as there is long waits for lab work, a lot of the beds are constantly held up with admitted complicated patients, and its just darn busy. Where as up north we were doing everything from triage, trauma room, cast cutting, iv therapy, ECG's, basic care etc and the waiting time in ER there was an hour at the worst and we had ANGRY people up there in FSJ as they had to wait SO LONG! LOL Gaud if they only knew how good they've got it!

K well the leaves are gone but the grass is still green here. Jason is busy working on the electrical in the house and is optimistic we will be getting in there sooner than later. We'll keep you posted Cheers Julie

Beautiful BC All Aglow

Wow time flies when life is busy! Again another significant lapse in time since the last blogging occured. I guess that can be taken as a good thing...which it is apart from the fact that life is BUSY. So ya since the last time I was on this thing Jason, Alistair and I jumped in Jason's truck and headed south through Jasper/Banff National Park for Lise & Troy's Wedding. (click on the highlight to see more pics!) Lise and I've known each other since we were just itty bitty three year olds as our mothers met taking our brothers to kindergarden and happened to both be Danes! So the connection stuck.

(Us cute and three)(Us still cute and in our 30's! : D~ Staggette)

Anyhow they got married at a stunning resort/location right in the mountains ~ Emerald Lake Lodge. We as a family pampered ourselves for a couple days. I got to see my best bud get hitched, I reconnected with a bunch of old school mates, and we got to eat great food in a incredible location and to top it off the weather was a scorching 20 degrees!

(Lise & her Pa)

(Us just prior to the big moment!)

(Emerald Lake)

After this we headed West to Golden and caught up with my cousin Eden, her kidlets, my Aunt Rosie, and Cousin Chris. It was short but sweet and we were happy to see Eden on the mend. She just got a silicone implant in both her eyes for partial detachments. The lucky lady went to renew her contacts and they demanded a reassessment prior to giving her a new set. Lucky for her as it sent her through a whirlwind of experiences but with two eyeballs on the road to recovery rather than a white cane! So if you ever think about B#%ching about an eye exam think again! The $90 once a year is worth a lifetime of sight....and trust me I've been irritated having to go and pay that monthly fee.

(Isla~Edens daughter, delighted Alistair woke up)

Anyhoo...we headed back north through Blue River and McBride to get back to PG. Alistair and I had a couple of days to recoup (literally) and then we were back in the truck heading North to FSJ. I just couldn't believe it when I drove into ol' John that my throat got tight and I chocked back some tears! All the feelings that I had when I was 7 months pregnant heading south to make Vancouver our home until Alistair came into this world came flooding back to me: leaving Jason and the pups behind, heading south for the unknown to live on my own, having this kicking bundle inside me oblivious to what his future may hold ie will he live or die, leaving my comfortable network of friends and family, and so on. How bizarre! Basically I told myself not to be so emotionally silly and then everything was alright. LOL Anyhow, the first night we spent with my cousin Valerie and her clan. As usual Valerie and I solved all the worlds child based problems in one night. Then the next day I bunkered in with Sandra Whitney and her family.

She (forth from the left) held a Meet & Greet for me which was great. It was so nice to see all the familiar faces and it felt like I had never left. Obviously there was some good solid ties made up in the North for that to happen.

( 4 months, 15 months, 8 weeks )

Some extra kidlets that weren't in the picture when I left came along as well. Lucy (on the left) is only 4 months old but in the 90th percentile where as Alistair is 15 months old and in the 5th percentile. I found that quite entertaining. Its amazing really how once you have kids of your own other kidlets become interesting but prior to that they are basically noise machines that are cute for a allocated period of time! After that great social we headed an hour north to my Uncle Walts and Aunt Vals ranch for their 40th Anniversary.

What an achievement. It makes you wonder where life will have taken you when you reach 40 years! One guarantee (well as long as we remain above ground!) is I'll be 75, Jason will be 76 and Alistair will be 35! My age now! Yikearoosy. Another bizzare moment. Anyhow we had lots of great catching up with all the famdamly. I attempted to head home the next day but it just didn't happen. I got to the town of FSJ and turned back into Sandra's place for a strong coffee and never left till the next day. All the going ons finally caught up to me. One thing I haven't even mentioned yet is how incredibly gorgeous the whole drive was. Everything was just one big GOLDEN GLOW and made the already incredilbe drive that much more spectacular. Anyhoo to top it all a day after I got home I started my first day orientation in PG Emerg......but I'm going to stop there for now and save that for another time..... : D

(PS! Alistair's eye contact is coming along nicely and surprisingly he doesn't mind wearing all his apparatus's although he's free of them in this picture.)